TRY THIS RADICAL APPROACH TO PLEASURE AND WATCH MAGIC HAPPEN

Hey there,

We all love orgasms! I sure LOVE them!

They are delicious, sparkly, rainbowy magical sensations we get to feel when we masturbate or have sex. The majority of us have sex because we get to have this pleasant release at the end of lovemaking. We move towards it, position our bodies in lovemaking to move towards it, and touch and stroke ourselves or our beloveds so that we or they orgasm.

We seek completion in these 5 seconds of oblivion, 5 seconds of the "little death," 5 seconds of emptiness. We train our nervous systems to reach this end goal, both men and women.

And there is nothing wrong with driving yourself to an orgasm and celebrating yourself in this.

But there will always be a feeling of something missing lingering somewhere deep down inside, a feeling that there is something much more to sex than just a 5-second orgasm.

So I invite you to explore a different way of approaching the pleasure of sex: Saying goodbye to orgasms and instead deciding to focus on moment-to-moment pleasure, or perhaps not even pleasure, but whatever sensation or experience will be present, moment to moment.

I invite you to engulf yourself in the experience of pure presence, trust, and curiosity.

Shift your mindset and allow for whatever needs to happen. And you might find you end up having one or two or three orgasms anyway. But if not, you've got an opportunity to dive deeper into intimacy with yourself and your partner and the myriads of moments filled with various sensations (not only “good” pleasurable ones, by the way!).

A couple I work with embraced this invitation in offering a cock and pussy massage to each other.

As a result, they experienced such a profoundly enjoyable and fun sexual connection like they hadn't had in a while. She ended up having three orgasms, and they had penetrative sex, which they didn't plan for at all. Overall, the experience was filled with newness and exciting unknowns. As it usually is when you allow yourself to not be attached to the outcome!

Are you excited to experiment with something similar in your self-pleasure or lovemaking with your partner? Let me offer you some supportive tools.

You can begin cultivating your PRESENCE, not your performance, by signing up for my self-guided online course for men, "Presence over Performance”.

Or you can start learning how to be the best lover she craves by diving into this epic practice of Pussy Massage - the ultimate cheat code and confidence builder in the bedroom for men.

And, of course, if you desire a custom approach to your situation, my 1:1 coaching is the best route to go. I offer six months and one-year-long journeys; book a FREE 30-minute connection call now to learn more and see if we are aligned to work together.

And if you are a group kind of a guy, I have the perfect offer for you - my Exclusive Men's Mastermind Group. You can learn all the details by clicking on the link.

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna