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You’re with a woman, and she seems to be enjoying it… but is she really? Or is she faking it?

You double down on your efforts to impress her - but the more pressure you feel, the more you’re getting into your head.

This was supposed to be fun. You were going to rock her world and feel like her hero. 

Instead you’re already dreading her disappointed face when you come too quickly.

Now the only thing that’s rising and climaxing is your insecurity and frustration. 

You can’t believe that this is your bedroom experience.

What if there was a simple, fail-safe technique to cut through the doubts and guarantee your time with her is a success - so easy it almost feels like cheating?

A low stress way to change the game and give you an unfair advantage so you’ll be the best she’s ever had - every single time.

A secret tool to instantly skyrocket your confidence, open your partner’s heart and sex to you, and ensure you become an unforgettable lover.

There is.

 

Discover the art (and magic) of the ultimate pussy adoration practice:

Pussy Massage

Imagine your partner splayed open before you, fully surrendered to you and her pleasure…

She’s shaking, and you haven’t even entered her yet…

Imagine her smiling at you through tears of bliss…

And you know you’ve already taken her on the pleasure ride of her life…

Imagine her so soft and free and open, juicy and dripping…

She’s actually begging for your cock…

This is a course for Lovers of Pussy…

…to make Pussy love You.

 
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TESTIMONIALS

“I hadn’t been with a woman in a long time, I’ve had issues with PE in the past, so I was really nervous when I finally started dating again. My first time with this girl I decided to take the lead, and I told her how much I wanted to really explore her body, she really liked that idea and let me undress her and lie her on the bed. Having watched Iryna’s video I was confident in giving this woman pleasure that she probably had never experienced in her life. Iryna guides you perfectly step by step with exactly what to do, and also how to guide your woman and stay present throughout the entire experience. I couldn’t believe how many times this woman orgasmed throughout the massage, her whole body was shaking, it was the first time in my life that I was certain a woman was not faking it, she was begging for me to have sex with her and I wasn’t even halfway through. It completely took the pressure of having sex, and since she had orgasmed so much throughout the massage I was not in my head, and I’m certain that I lasted longer because of that. I highly recommend Iryna’s pussy massage video, it is a complete game changer, and a huge confidence builder.”

- Tim F., Boston

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HER RIDE DOESN’T START WHEN YOU ENTER HER.


GIVE HER THE RIDE OF HER LIFE…

BEFORE SHE’S EVEN MET YOUR COCK.

 

There’s so much pressure put on your cock. It’s gotta be hard enough, and thick enough, for long enough.

If you want to please her, your cock’s gotta play ball. If you want to hit the home run, you better perform at the top of your game during the big event.

Otherwise you may have scored… but win neither the game, nor in the confidence department.

Right?

Wrong.

It’s possible for her to have the best sex of her life with you - in a way that has nothing to do with your cock.

You can have her coming multiple times, gushing with pleasure…

So she’ll be writhing and shaking…

She’ll be moaning and filled up with ecstasy…

All because of you. 

Because of your skilled hands and your powerful presence.

Because you offered her a gift no other lover ever has: Pussy Massage. 

And that is what you are going to learn in this course.

And when your cock does join the game?

He’ll be free to be the king of the court.

 
 
 

PUSSY MASSAGE

The #1 skill every man needs to master to have a woman be wildly orgasmic, open and in love

 
 

The Ultimate Cheat Code and Confidence Builder in the Bedroom for Men

Get everything you need to know to become a master of the art of Pussy Massage. 

Your confidence will be rock-solid (and that way your cock can be, too).

Learn this tool, and you’ll be a lover she never forgets.

A FOREPLAY TECHNIQUE THAT WORKS LIKE MAGIC

Pussy Massage allows her to feel all the pleasure - without any pressure. It’s the perfect fail-safe foreplay technique that makes her feel adored, cared for and safe, giving her all the time she needs to warm up and be truly ready to receive you. It works like magic.

A PRACTICE FOR DEEPER CONNECTION

Women are biologically wired to care about feeling connected to you. She wants to feel connected to you, and the more she does, the more she’ll trust you and let you in. What if there was a powerful practice you could rely on as a standalone ritual, one that is guaranteed to sky-rocket the connection between you? There is. And you’ll learn it in this course.

 

THE KEY TO HER HEART AND SEX

Most women have never received this type of devoted presence you offer her through the art of this pussy adoration practice. When done well, she will be able to relax into really feeling her sensations, surrender to her pleasure, feel safe to feel her feelings, and trust you deeply. Her heart and her sex will open to you, becoming more receptive than ever.

BECOME A LOVER UNLIKE ANY OTHER

She may come multiple times before your cock even comes into play, but even if she doesn’t - she’ll feel like you gave her a most delicious gift. She’ll appreciate you. And she won’t forget the way you made her feel as her lover anytime soon. Not many men know how to provide this type of caring pleasure. Be the man who does. And watch your hotness factor instantly ratchet up in her eyes.

 

TAKE THE LEAD - AND LEAD HER INTO BLISS

Polarity is hot. Really hot. When you show up in your masculine, she’ll melt into her feminine for you. And by design, that’s what Pussy Massage is all about. Learn how to set the scene and take the lead from the start. Watch her soften into your guidance, receive all you’ve got to give, and become radiant before you.

A PATH TO EXTRAORDINARY PLEASURE AND SENSATIONAL SEX

Beyond pure pleasure… even beyond the emotional and healing benefits you are helping her experience by giving her a Pussy Massage… there’s a sacred aspect to this practice. A devotional quality to your presence with her. A transcendent magic generated between you. Do you dare go there?

 
 

TESTIMONIALS

“At the time I started working with Iryna, I had a really bad case of performance anxiety. My ex had shamed me in the bedroom for my inability to please her, and my confidence was at an all-time low. I learned many things from Iryna, and one of the most important teachings was about the pussy massage. This one simple technique alone brought me from a timid and apologetic guy hoping that I don’t cum too quickly, to a confident leader in the bedroom taking women on pleasure rides of their lives. Women regularly tell me I am the best they ever had in bed. One woman told me the pussy massage is like a spiritual experience for her. Several ladies have asked me to pass on their personal gratitude to Iryna for teaching me this technique. I believe the pussy massage provides me an unfair advantage in the bedroom, and its fundamental to my intimacy approach. If you are looking for an easy and low stress way to bring your sex game to another dimension, I highly recommend the pussy massage!”

- Percy, Portland

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 THE COURSE IN DETAIL

Pussy Massage: The Ultimate Cheat Code and Confidence Builder in the Bedroom for Men

 
 

A self-paced course with 3 modules. Learn everything you need to know to become a master of this pussy adoration practice.

Your training will be available as soon as you purchase, so you can get started immediately. And blow her mind with her first Pussy Massage tonight.

Explicit follow-along videos so you can be sure to get it exactly right. Plus secrets for success, guidance on setting up the space, and even how best to invite your partner.

You get lifetime access. So you can come back for pointers anytime you want, and plumb the depths of the magic of Pussy Massage.

 

 

Click on each tab for module details.

Module 1 | Introduction

What, exactly, is Pussy Massage? What makes it such a powerful practice? And how can you best invite your partner into the experience? Get the answers in Module 1.

Module 2 | Preparation

Learn what it means to create a container, hold the space, and create clear expectations. Learn how to prepare the space and prepare your partner. Receive the guidance you need so you can confidently take the lead from the start, and discover secrets for success.

Module 3 | Practice

Use the explicit follow-along video of the complete 50 minute practice to master the art of Pussy Massage and give her an unforgettable experience. With this training at your back, you can only get it right.

 
 
 
 

MEET YOUR SEXUALITY AND INTIMACY COACH

Iryna Sulim

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In the modern society we live in, with an awareness of the “divine feminine” rising and awakening, there is also an urgent need for redefining true masculinity and what it means to be a man.

My innate curiosity for the depth of a human soul, my personal spiritual and sexual healing journey through Tantra, and trustworthy relationships with the men in my life led me to my true calling: helping men to connect back to their authentic selves, their freedom, consciousness and power through healing their sexuality.

Having studied various energy healing modalities, tantric yoga and dominance/submission (D/S) with known leaders in the field like Chris Bale, Sasha Cobra, Lynda Caesara, Layla Martin, Charles Muir (Tantra Yoga) and Om Rupani (D/S), I have spent over six years learning about male sexuality and helping more than a hundred men identify their true desires and needs around sexuality, heal their sexual wounding, and become the best lovers they can be.

I believe I have a true gift for holding a safe and empowering space for men. My mission is to guide men in mastering the tools necessary for a deeper, more powerful, more intimate and more pleasurable relationship to themselves and to their lover.

 
 
 
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Having seen the results it reliably brings for the hundreds of men I’ve worked with, Pussy Massage is one of my absolute favorite secrets to share!

They say things like:

  • "This has given me confidence like nothing else. I use it all the time, with any woman I’m with. It works like magic." 

  • "I care about putting her first. She tells me she feels worshiped and adored when I give her a Pussy Massage. And I can feel the difference in her when we have sex.”

  • "My favorite foreplay go-to. The ladies love it, and so do I." 

  • "Since trying it for the first time, my wife and I have a weekly Pussy Massage ritual. We’re closer than ever and our love-making has gotten hotter, too.”

  • “Learning Pussy Massage inspired my girl to want to learn Cock Massage. The bliss we give each other all the time now blows my mind.”

 
 

PUSSY MASSAGE

The Ultimate Cheat Code and Confidence Builder in the Bedroom for Men.

The #1 skill every man needs to master to have a woman be wildly orgasmic, open and in love.


 
 
 

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

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> Do I need to have experience with yoga, meditation, breathwork etc., to do this course?

There are no prerequisites. Anyone can learn to master the art of Pussy Massage and enjoy the benefits of this magical tool. While having prior experience with mindfulness, conscious presence etc. will assist you, all you need to bring is a willingness to learn and you’re set.

> Is this course for men only? What if I’m a woman/have a pussy and want to learn Pussy Massage?

This course is for all lovers of pussy! If you want to learn how to offer a Pussy Massage to a person with a pussy, you are in the right place. Please note that the course does use heteronormative language and mentions the masculine energy of the massage giver.

> How much time do I need to dedicate to complete the course?

You can complete the whole course in one afternoon and be ready to offer your partner a pussy massage in a matter of hours. The Pussy Massage practice itself takes roughly 50 minutes, and you’ll want around 30-45 minutes beforehand to set the space and drop in with your partner.

> I’ve already done Presence over Performance. Do I need this course?

Congratulations for having gone deep with Presence over Performance. Since the art of Pussy Massage is included as part of that course, you don’t need to purchase this one.

> Is there any post-course support? How can I continue working with you?

There is! If you want to keep your momentum going, you can do so in my exclusive men’s mastermind group:

Join the Gentlemen’s Club: A safe space to share about sex, and continue to grow. Only for graduates of my courses.

What you get:

Two live calls each month with me and your fellow Gentlemen

  • Live guided embodiment practice | Keep your practice fresh, fun and alive
  • Live teaching & hot seat coaching | Sit in the fire and forge yourself into ever-more advanced mastery
  • Live access to me | Get all your spicy or vulnerable questions answered
  • Safe sharing of wins and challenges | Celebrate and learn in community
  • 75 mins call length | Held via Zoom

On-going support via our private Telegram group

  • Safe sharing of your wins and challenges any time you want to brag or need support
  • Extra resources shared by me
  • Ask questions as they arise
  • Benefit from the hive mind: Get input from fellow men on the path - and get the feminine perspective from me!
  • Call recordings

Your commitment

  • $99/month, paid monthly, recurring on the day you sign up OR $1188/year
  • One year commitment (twelve payments OR one total advance payment)
  • Continue month to month after one year or renew for another year
  • Cancel anytime after completing your one year commitment
  • Calls are recorded and posted in the Telegram group - but I encourage you to show up live as much as you can to receive hot seat coaching and get the greatest benefit!

Don’t miss this rare opportunity to have on-demand access to my expert guidance and receive live coaching from me on love, sex, and relationship for only $99/month!

Unlock access to the Gentlemen’s Club at the end of your course.

> What is your refund policy?

There are no refunds offered. Please note that you get lifetime access upon purchase, so if something comes up that keeps you from learning the practice now, you’ve got this magic tool in your back pocket to take out and use with your woman whenever you’re ready.

 
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