I prescribe custom Holistic Self-Pleasure practices for my clients.
What’s that? Well, this is a totally new way of how you approach masturbation. Because I strongly believe that how we self-pleasure, & by extension how we make love, affects how we love, how we relate to other people, how we show up on dates & in a relationship, & how we feel inside our bodies.
“I am so busy, I haven’t had energy to even think about sex magic practice.” - words I hear from one of my clients today.
Oh, I totally understand. I am going into this space myself. I am so busy trying to create my business & juggle a million things, that the very actual thing I preach, I don’t do myself.
And there are times I feel guilty & irresponsible to dedicate time for self-pleasure, when I know that there are tons of things to do on my list. Have you ever found yourself in this place?
One time when I was at ecstatic dance I had a full body energy orgasm in the hands of a man.
I go to ecstatic dance in NYC often & I absolutely love how the magical rhythm of the beat makes my body feel & move. There are no rules in ecstatic dance. I let my head rest & my body takes over the process. It's so liberating. It's a play.
What does it mean emotional maturity? And what does it have to do with sex?
Emotional maturity is the foundation of most things we do in life & how we relate to our emotions, which affects our entire life through daily choices we make & actions.
The more in depth I’m going into stripping off my own conditioning & bullshit & trusting my inner knowing & my feels.... the more I am able to detect if a man really is in touch with his devine masculine essence & his energy body.
Read MoreI have a client who has difficulties connecting with women. He is in his late 50’s and has never been married & his last long term relationship was in 1990’s. The relationship ended because the woman left him. He was devastated, heart broken & never really healed. Instead he became cynical, started seeing sex workers & has been doing so for almost 10 years. Sure enough it never was fulfilling. He came to me for help to see if there is a chance.
Read MoreI asked this question of the men in my FB group - what is PLEASURE for them?! And what activities they engage into to bring more pleasure into their lives?
A lot of them went right away into the scenarios of sexual pleasure with their partners. And that's totally cool! It is the first place a man’s brain goes to when it comes to Pleasure. And it’s really amazing that it is so. It is a man’s nature.
Read MoreI had a lover once who had deep shame around his sexuality. At the time when we met I have spent several years on my healing, was aware of my wounding, depth didn’t scare me, & it was normal for me to be open & vulnerable in expressing my desires for intimacy. I knew how I liked to receive pleasure. I knew what turned me on & how to ask for what I wanted.
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