How I ended up here
It’s been a while since I shared my story, and I know many of you are new here.
I was born and raised in Belarus, a small but mighty country. I was an average student and never loved school much. I studied Art History, cultural heritage, and international tourism, and dreamed of traveling the world as an art auctioneer, selling beautiful pieces to people who valued refinement. I’ve always been drawn to beauty in all forms: art, food, music, architecture, people.
When I was 19, I first visited the Hamptons and decided a few years later to move to the US for good. I landed in New York City, which felt like the right place for me at the time. I had no idea what the “top” would look like, but I was determined to make my way there.
After a mix of odd jobs, I found my footing in real estate. My dream of Sotheby’s shifted into selling stunning NYC homes. I loved the beauty of it but also learned the grind of the business world.
By the time I was 31, things were starting to shift. A series of relationships had me looking at how I was showing up as a partner. My insecurities around not measuring up bled into my work and my relationships. I would sit in board meetings, tuning out, asking myself what I was doing with my life.
Then came the final push…my partner’s infidelity. That broke something open in me.
I left NYU, went to India for a yoga retreat, and started following what felt alive. It sounds small now, but at the time it was everything. That led me to a Tantric workshop in California, which ended up changing the course of my life.
Within months, I quit my real estate job, started leading Tantric workshops, and began offering in-person breathwork and sexuality sessions in New York. All of this happened in a blur, over about two years.
I was following what lit me up. Spirituality, Tantra, conscious sexuality. Still carrying the mindset of pushing and achieving. Over time, I realized growth doesn’t happen by force.
Over the years, with the guidance of teachers, trainings, and hundreds of client sessions, I’ve found my rhythm. My work with men came naturally. It’s easy for me to sit with men, to hear the things they don’t say anywhere else, to help them understand women and intimacy in a way they were never taught.
Men are deeply curious about the feminine. They want to love and lead better. They want to feel at home in their masculinity. I help them with all of that, through the portal of conscious sexuality and connection.
This is the work I’ve been doing for the past seven years. And this season is closing soon. Starting this fall, my coaching will pivot into a new direction, focused less on sexual performance and more on the deeper relational and emotional dynamics of love and connection.
Which means, if you’ve been feeling drawn to work with me in the way I’ve been coaching men up until now, this is the time.
Through August 31, my 1:1 coaching is available for:
A single 90-minute breakthrough session
A 3-session series
Or a 6-month deep dive for the man ready to fully step into this work
After August, these offers won’t be coming back.
If this is the season where you want to reconnect to yourself, your body, your intimacy, and your relationships in this way, you can find the details and apply through the link below.
With devotion,
Iryna