When you meditate, especially when you choose to focus on your sensations in your meditation (i.e. Vipassana style), you become present to subtleties in the spectrum of your sensations. It’s almost like the landscape of your inner workings becomes more colorful, diverse, and deep.
Read MoreWhen she initiates intimacy by coming on to me, kissing and touching me, I cringe, move away, my whole body gets constricted, and instead of being turned on, I get repelled by her.”
My client is in a relationship with an awakened and hypersexual (his words) woman. He’s overwhelmed by her overly sexual nature. He feels pressure to satisfy a never satiated woman. And with that loses his confidence.
Read MoreA few days ago I had an intro session with a man, who came to me because he's been experiencing PE (premature ejaculation) for about 20 years.
10 minutes into the call, when I asked him about masturbation, and how often he does it, he got very uncomfortable, thanked me for my time and hang up....
Read MoreWhat an extraordinary time in history we all are living through right now.
I personally moved from so many states in these last few weeks - fear, of course, frustration, that I can't see my friends and go places, which felt so normal before and now the new normal is zoom and facetime meetings, state of apathy and finally surrender and gratitude.
I have a client, who came to me initially to work on his intimacy with his long term partner.
Successful in business, but deeply unhappy in his marriage.
We did an initial intro session, but he did not sign up to work with me. He wanted to talk to his partner first to get her consent as well.
Read MoreHave you ever heard of semen retention?
What that is? Well, it is a practice of conscious non-ejaculation. It doesn't mean you cannot masturbate or have sex. It means you do all of that & choose not to ejaculate at the end. I did not say - not to orgasm, I said - not to ejaculate. Because orgasming & ejaculating are two separate processes that were merged together once a man became of sexual age.
In a session with a client:
Client: “You may criticize my career choice, the way I dress, the way I speak.
But you can’t criticize how much I earn or my sex, and my ability to give pleasure'“.
This client came to me with a PE (Premature Ejaculation) issue. He's been experiencing it for about 5 years. He isn't enthusiastic about having sex with his wife because sex became an obligation or a job for him. He doesn’t associate it with fun and pleasure.
Read MoreHave you ever found yourself being in a perpetual state of gratitude? Even if it happens for a day or may be a few hours? How does it feel like in your body?
I have found myself being in this state for the last few weeks (after I had that epic full body orgasm during my work out class, hehe).