Sometimes You Have to Date Down…
Let’s tell the truth. Not every woman you date is going to be a match. And sometimes, you date down. Not because you’re desperate. Not because you don’t know your worth. But because part of you is still learning what you actually want… and what you’ll never tolerate again.
Maybe she was beautiful and magnetic, but emotionally unavailable. Maybe the chemistry was electric, but the connection was hollow. Maybe she said all the right things, but couldn’t meet you in depth, vulnerability, or truth.
And you kept showing up. Giving more. Trying harder to earn what should have been mutual. Until finally, you saw it.
She couldn’t meet you. Not because you’re too much. But because you’re starting to want more. That moment of realization? That’s not weakness. That’s your masculine awakening.
It’s your nervous system saying: 👉 “This isn’t it.”
Sometimes you have to date down… to rise up. To get so clear on what you don’t want that you stop negotiating your standards.
Because real love doesn’t require you to abandon your emotional truth. Or shrink to be liked. Or chase what isn’t choosing you. You’re not meant to settle. You’re meant to be met.
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Much love and gratitude,
Iryna