The work that’s shaped me the most

There’s a moment I’ve seen happen in so many men I work with. They stop trying to fix the problem. They stop bracing for rejection or overthinking every move. They start to feel again.

And then something shifts. Not just in them, but their partner too. It’s a softness that returns. A look in her eyes. A new level of honesty. A current of turn-on that had gone quiet for a while.

That’s what these men were speaking to when they wrote me these messages:

“Despite the challenges that are happening in the world (my wedding got canceled, I have to sell my apartment, etc.) I feel the most centered and empowered and most connected to my partner. Our intimacy is the best it’s ever been.” 

- a man from NYC, who originally came to me with ED


“I feel like I have a voice. I matter. I started two businesses with my friend, painted the entire house, cleared my garage. My wife wants to connect with me more, whether before she would not even talk to me for the whole day.” 

- a man from Tennessee, who originally came to me with PE.


“Big update! I've been SUPER focused on bringing more presence and love into the relationship and it's been incredible. In just a few days, she's said "I've never felt as close to you as I have lately. And I’ve never been as wet.” 

- a man from NJ who originally came to me with PE.

If you want to read more testimonials from men I've worked with, you can view them here on my website.

If you missed it, this season of coaching, the one that’s held so many tears and breakthroughs and quiet, life-altering returns to the body, is closing. These sessions, these men, this work… it’s changed me. It’s taught me how strong and tender and complex men really are.

I’m offering my final sessions through the end of August (and for a deep discount!) After that, this chapter is done. So if you’ve felt something stir when you read my words, if you’ve been thinking about it quietly for a while, this is the time to decide. 

Warmly,

Iryna