These 3 things change everything in intimacy
I want to share with you these 3 main skills, you, as a man can get yourself started on your path to sexual mastery. I know that is what any man wants. So here are three things you MUST become aware of.
1. Your Attention Is Your Greatest Asset As a Lover.
What does it really mean? It means bringing your attention to the present. Are you present? Are you feeling your woman? Are you observing her now? Your attention is what brings information about the world back to you. Whatever you put your attention on, it will start to reveal itself to you. Never get lost in an activity or technique that you lose all sense of your own attention. If need be pause your action, so you can come back to your attention. Pause to look. Pause to listen. Pause to take in. Let your attention go out towards your woman, and let that attention bring back real information in real-time about your woman.
2. You Need to Feel Your Woman.
In order to do so, you must learn how to feel yourself, i.e. your emotions, sensations. That is also the key to lasting longer in bed and be a good lover. This isn't always easy to grasp by men who are logical beings and are not in touch with their emotions. So next time you feel an emotion, try tracking it to your body, become very aware of it. You will find a heavy or sweet weight in your chest or giddiness in your head or a lump in your throat or fear and churning in your rectum or queasiness in your stomach or swirls of a turn on and arousal in your groin. This is your inner body, your emotional body. Tuning in to your body and expanding your own capacity to feel various sensations and emotions with different intensity, will train you to be more in tune with your woman's body, and sustain greater amounts of pleasure. And that is how you can overcome your sexual "performance" issues.
3. Be Transparent. Be Who You Really Are.
This third point may not sound much like sex advice, but it is a much needed overarching character asset that today's man is in dire need of. Boldly and cleanly be who you really are. Don't fake it. Whatever your assets and shortcomings are, be upfront and unapologetic about them. To reach this state of transparency, you are going to need to deal with all the places you currently find yourself inadequate and are busy covering up. Your integrity is essential if you want to touch ecstasy with your lover. Pretending and faking isn't going to work. You, genuinely being who you are, is an essential aspect of the journey towards ecstasy.
If you really start implementing these 3 key principles in your love life, you will begin noticing positive changes. And your woman - as well.
Do you want more? Do you want support on your journey?
I'm here to help. I'd love to work 1:1 with you. And this is the last chance you have to grab any of these offerings as my coaching is pivoting this fall. These offerings will no longer be available as of August 31.
Warmly,