This chapter of my coaching came to a closing!

I want to share something honest, heartfelt, and important with you.

For the past seven years, I’ve had the privilege of working intimately with men—men who came to me carrying sexual shame, performance anxiety, fear of rejection, and deep confusion around intimacy.

What I discovered in those years… changed me.

What I saw wasn’t just a need for better technique.  
I saw men with good hearts—honest, generous, deeply feeling.

Men who had never been acknowledged for their emotional depth.  
Men praised for their success, but never shown how to express what they feel.  
Men taught to perform—but not how to receive, relax, or be fully seen.

I saw how much men want to please.  
How much they want to be safe, strong, chosen, and met.

And I saw how performance anxiety and sexual shame can’t be solved by surface-level fixes.

Kegels won’t fix it.  
Mastering new positions won’t fix it.  
Breathwork won’t fix it.

Because this was never just about sex.  
It’s always been about the whole man—his emotional world, his beliefs, his energy, and the unseen shame he’s carried for years.

That’s what I’ve really been holding.

Yes, the conversations started around performance.  
But in truth, my work has always gone deeper—into the places most men have never had permission to explore.

In private, we’ve been doing the real work all along:  
Emotional clarity. Nervous system healing. Masculine/feminine polarity. Boundaries. Relationship leadership. Soul-level transformation.

I just wasn’t leading with it.

But now… I am.

Where I’m going next:

I’m shifting the focus of my coaching and offerings to support men in dating and relationship dynamics—the emotional, energetic, and psychological depth that shapes who you are in love, not just who you are in bed.

Because what truly matters is:
• Being a safe, turned-on, emotionally available partner  
• Creating connection that builds rather than burns  
• Leading with truth and clarity in the messiness of modern love  
• Feeling secure enough in yourself to not perform—but connect

As I open this next chapter, I’m also closing a big one.

I will no longer be offering private coaching or programs focused specifically on sexual performance or shame healing.  
This work has been sacred. It has shaped me as a teacher and a woman. And now, it’s time to let it rest.

But before I do, I want to offer a final opportunity for the men who still feel called to this work.

I’m opening 3 private coaching spots  and my signature online course “Presence over Performance” 
At a discounted closing rate  
Available until August 31, 2025

This will be the last time I offer this work in this way.

If your body feels it—if part of you knows this is the moment—  
I would be honored to walk with you through this final portal of reclamation.

And to the many men I’ve already walked with—thank you.  
You have shown me what is possible when the masculine is met with love, reverence, and full permission to be whole.

This next chapter will be deeper, more relational, more intimate—because you’ve taught me how.

Warmly,

Iryna