If you're dating, this is for you
If you’ve been thinking about joining the 30-Day Conscious Dating Challenge, and you haven't yet signed up, this email is for you. Not to convince you. Just to connect with you.
Maybe part of you wants to move forward, but you’ve been circling the idea. You’ve opened the page. You’ve read the emails. And you feel something in it that speaks to you, but you’re still holding back.
That’s okay. You’re not behind. You’re not wrong. But I want to ask you something gently.
How has dating felt for you lately? Not just logistically, but how has it felt in your body? In your nervous system? Do you feel connected to yourself when you’re dating? Do you feel proud of how you’re showing up, how you’re communicating, how you’re leading? Do you feel safe? Do you feel clear? Do you feel the kind of peace that comes when you’re no longer trying to prove your worth in every interaction?
Because if you said no to any of these, you’re not alone. So many men have learned to date from a place of control, performance, or self-protection. To analyze, to figure it out, to keep emotions contained. To power through, even when their bodies are saying slow down. To lead in ways that feel performative instead of grounded in their truth.
This challenge isn’t going to fix all of that in 30 days. But it will help you slow down long enough to notice what’s really driving your patterns. It will help you stay with yourself when you feel anxious or unsure. It will help you start leading from integrity instead of fear.
This conscious dating challenge will offer you a rhythm. It’s one email a day for 30 days, each with a grounded reflection, prompt, or practice that brings you back to your body, your awareness, and your truth.
Some days will ask you to sit with something uncomfortable. Some will help you reframe your approach. Some will offer tools you can use before or after a date. All of it is designed to help you stop dating on autopilot and start dating from presence.
You’ll also get access to a private portal where all 30 days of content are stored, so you can revisit them anytime. You’ll have six months of access. You don’t need to keep up or get it right. You just need to stay open to the process.
If you’re feeling resistance, ask yourself what it’s really about. Is it fear that you won’t follow through? Is it doubt that this could actually make a difference? Is it the voice that says you should already have this figured out by now?
Whatever it is, you can meet it gently. You’re allowed to not know everything yet. You’re allowed to be in the middle of your process. And you’re allowed to want more from the way you date.
I'd love for you to join us!
It’s $29.
30 days.
We Start June 1.
ENROLLMENT ENDS AT MIDNIGHT.
WILL YOU SAY YES?
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna