What happens when you stop chasing the big “O”
We all love org@sms! I sure love them! They are delicious, sparkly, rainbowy magical sensations we get to feel when we m@sturbate or have s/x. The majority of us, for the most part, have s/x because we get to have this pleasant release at the end of lovemaking. We move towards it, position our bodies in lovemaking to move towards it, and touch and stroke whether ourselves or our beloveds so that we or they org@sm. We seek completion in these 5 seconds of oblivion, 5 seconds of "little death," 5 seconds of emptiness. We train our nervous systems to reach this end goal, both men and women.
And there is nothing wrong with driving yourself to an org@sm and celebrating yourself in this.
But there still always will be a feeling of something missing lingering somewhere deep down inside, a feeling that there is something much more to s/x than just a 5-second orgasm.
Some of you may not even question yourself with this. And most of you, I hope, really get what I am trying to say here.
I am inviting you here to explore a different way of completely saying goodbye to org@sms and instead deciding to focus on a moment-to-moment pleasure or perhaps not even pleasure but whatever sensation or experience will be present moment to moment. I invite you to engulf yourself in the experience of pure presence, trust, and curiosity.
Shift your mindset and allow for whatever needs to happen happen. And if by some miracle you will have one or two or three org@sms, so shall it be. (To tell you the truth, that is what usually ends up happening anyway, haha). And if not, you've got an opportunity to dive deeper into the intimacy with yourself and your partner and the myriads of moments filled with various sensations (not only good pleasurable ones, by the way).
A couple I work with embraced this invitation in offering a c0ck and pu$$y massage to each other. As a result, it was such a profoundly enjoyable and fun s/xual connection they hadn't had in a while. She ended up having three org@sms, and they had penetrative s/x, which they didn't plan for at all. And overall, the experience was filled with newness and exciting unknowns. And it usually is when you allow yourself not to be attached to the outcome.
Are you excited to experiment with something similar in your self-pleasure or lovemaking with your partner? Then let me offer you the tools to explore this deeper — my private coaching offerings, which are only available for one more day before this chapter of my work closes.
Tomorrow is the last day to shop the summer sale and work with me in this way before my coaching shifts into a new chapter. After August 31, I will no longer be offering this style of work.
You can book my private coaching at a closing rate until then:
A single 90-minute breakthrough session for $250 (normally $300)
A 3-session series for $750 (normally $1,000)
A 6-month deep dive for $3,000 (normally $4,000)
With devotion,
Iryna