If talking about sex feels uncomfortable, this is for you
A few days ago, I had an intro session with a man who had been experiencing premature ejaculation for almost twenty years.
Ten minutes into our call, I asked him about his m@sturbation habits. How often. What it looked like for him.
He froze. Got quiet. Then thanked me for my time and hung up.
I was shocked at first. And then I was reminded.
There are still so many men for whom these conversations are terrifying. M@sturbation. P0rn. Intimacy. S/x itself. Even the thought of speaking it out loud sends their nervous systems into panic.
I have been doing this work for years, so it feels natural to me to talk about these things openly. To me, sexuality is something beautiful. Sacred. Vulnerable. Something that can be deeply fulfilling and nourishing when we approach it with awareness, not just a release or a performance.
But not every man has had the space to experience it that way. Many men have never had anyone guide them to see s/xuality as something they can actually relax into, rather than brace against.
Which is why this work is still so needed. Because the discomfort you feel around these conversations does not mean you are not ready for them. It means your body and your nervous system are carrying old fear, shame, and conditioning around s/x. And that is the exact reason to start.
This is not about forcing yourself into talking about things that feel scary. It is about learning how to feel safe in your own body first. How to approach s/x as something that can nourish you, rather than drain you. How to unwind years of tension and patterns so you can actually experience intimacy without fear taking over.
More and more men are realizing they are ready for this work, even if it terrifies them at first. In fact, in the last few weeks, I have received more inquiries for my coaching than in the last four months combined.
If this is something you are curious about, even if your chest tightens at the thought of talking about it, this summer is the last chance to work with me in this way before my coaching shifts into a new chapter this fall.
Through August 31, my 1:1 coaching is available at a closing rate:
A single 90-minute breakthrough session for $250 (normally $300)
A 3-session series for $750 (normally $1,000)
A 6-month deep dive for $3,000 (normally $4,000)
If this is the season to finally feel safe and confident in your body, and to shift how you relate to s/x and intimacy, you can book your free 1:1 session or shop the summer sale below!
With devotion,
Iryna