30 days to stop dating on autopilot
You weren’t meant to perform to be loved. You weren’t meant to chase people who can't meet you, or shrink yourself to stay desirable, or pretend you're fine with something that doesn’t actually feel good.
But this is what so many of us learned. We were taught to be cool. To be impressive. To earn love by being easy, chill, agreeable— To tolerate confusion, mixed signals, emotional unavailability. And to call that dating.
But the truth is, most of us are just repeating patterns. Staying silent when we want to speak. Chasing when we feel ignored. Pulling away when we start to care. And calling it chemistry when it’s really just nervous system chaos.
And maybe you're tired. Tired of trying to figure out what someone else wants before you've even asked yourself what you want. Tired of folding parts of yourself just to keep a door open that probably doesn’t lead where you want to go. Tired of wondering if the version of you that’s being chosen is even the real one.
That’s why I created this.
And it’s not about being better at dating. It’s about being better at being with yourself—so you stop getting pulled into dynamics that disconnect you from your truth.
For 30 days, I’ll guide you through a simple, grounded reset. Each day, you’ll get a short, powerful email. Some days it’s a prompt. Some days it’s a practice. Some days it’s just a reflection that lands like a gut punch and shifts something you didn’t know needed to move.
You’ll have access to a private portal where it all lives, so you can come back anytime. No pressure to be perfect. No deadline to finish. Just one quiet, consistent space that helps you show up differently—for yourself and for the kind of love you actually want.
This isn’t about games. It’s about truth. The kind that makes you magnetic. The kind that makes you safe in your own skin. The kind that lets you stop auditioning, and start choosing.
You don’t need to change yourself to be chosen. But you might need to change the way you’ve been showing up for you. You ready?
It’s $29.
30 days.
Starts June 1.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna