"It was the first time I could last as long as I wanted to"
I want to share something powerful with you.
This is from one of the men in my group. Someone who struggled with premature ejaculation for nearly 20 years. After his divorce, he made the brave decision to start doing the deeper work. That path eventually brought him into my world. Through consistent practices, devotion to himself, and our work together, he began to reclaim his body, his pleasure, and his power.
Here’s what he shared with the group recently:
“It was also the first time in my life when I felt I could just last as long as I wanted to…. I don’t know if it was because after having a certain volume of sex, my body got used to it? Or, maybe all those days practicing the cool and hot training leading up to this really took effect. One thing for sure is that she was amazed how long I could last and how often I could go. It’s so much easier to have sex when you stay full”
This is what happens when men begin to honor their life force. When they shift from chasing quick release to cultivating presence, discipline, and deeper sensation. It’s not a fantasy. It’s the real result of showing up for this work. One breath, one practice at a time.
And it doesn’t just change the man. It changes the women they love, too.
I’ve received messages from partners who are grateful, surprised, lit up by how much these men are showing up differently.
“Nina said she had never been with a man who had this much knowledge of sex and what to do with a woman… of course I told her all about the work her country woman is doing 😊”
This is the ripple effect of intimacy work. Not performative. Not about being better in bed just to check a box. But about bringing reverence to the body. Yours, and hers.
If you’ve ever felt the pull to work with me, to finally get support for what you’ve been struggling with in silence… this is your chance.
My Summer Sale ends August 31, and after that, these offerings are going into the archives. There are multiple options available, from deep 1:1 coaching to shorter containers and self-paced practices. Something for every budget.
You don’t have to keep doing this alone. And you don’t have to wait for your relationship, or your confidence, to fall apart before you take action.
With devotion,
Iryna