Want to attract a feminine woman? Start here.

If you desire to attract a feminine woman, please don’t work on your “feminine.” Work on emotional maturity, your relationship with your inner masculine, and God.

Don’t be sold on new age concepts of “healing your inner woman” by adorning yourself in sparkly clothes, painting your nails, and acting all weird trying to be open and in your heart—camouflaging the impulse to penetrate. I am all for self-expression in the most creative ways. But if you truly desire to be with a feminine woman, this is not the vibe to put out. (Btw, I am well aware of the nuances and paradoxes here. I am sharing my perspective—if you don’t resonate, move on.)

And yes, I said it—cultivate a relationship with God, whatever it may look like for you.

At times, for some of us who have the deepest wounds, God is the only salvation. God is the almighty parent who sees and loves us no matter what. When God is present, all feels fine. There is ground. There is center. There is an overarching meta-knowing: I am safe, held, and loved.

How do you cultivate a relationship with your inner masculine? If you are a man raised without a present father figure, find the role model you aspire to—a man you trust and respect, whose lifestyle resonates with you. And also, develop within yourself your own flavor of the masculine. Only when you are in stillness and listening will the truth of your masculine essence become more evident to you.

I invite you to ask yourself these questions:
Who am I as a transmuted man? What does my presence create in the world? What will I be remembered for?

And this month and next, I am going to share with you little nuggets of wisdom on all things Conscious Dating! 😊 Stay tuned! ✨✨✨

Much love and gratitude,

Iryna