What if dating became an act of self-love?
What I invite you to journal on—or just sit with today—is this:
What if your conscious dating journey was actually a self-love practice?
Because that’s what this challenge is. It’s not about chasing the perfect match. It’s not about getting better at saying the right thing. It’s about coming back to yourself.
When you treat dating as an extension of your self-love, everything shifts. You stop looking to someone else to validate your worth. You stop measuring your enoughness by how someone else responds to you.
So here’s a question to ask yourself honestly: If I’ve spent my whole life looking to others to make me feel chosen, worthy, or wanted...what would it look like to love myself, regardless of what anyone else thinks?
When that’s the frame you’re holding, dating becomes a lot less fragile.
Rejection stings less. Ghosting doesn’t collapse you. You move through the highs and lows without losing yourself in the process.
And if something hard happens—a disappointment, a no, a silence—
you get to ask: What is the most loving thing I can do for myself right now?
Dating becomes a space where you honor yourself, your boundaries, your energy, your time, and your truth.
And yeah... that worthiness piece? You don’t have to prove it anymore. You get to live it.
If this speaks to you, and you’re ready to try a completely different way of dating— I created this 30-day conscious dating challenge for you.
And it’s not about being better at dating. It’s about being better at being with yourself—so you stop getting pulled into dynamics that disconnect you from your truth.
For 30 days, I’ll guide you through a simple, grounded reset. Each day, you’ll get a short, powerful email. Some days it’s a prompt. Some days it’s a practice. Some days it’s just a reflection that lands like a gut punch and shifts something you didn’t know needed to move.
You’ll have access to a private portal where it all lives, so you can come back anytime. No pressure to be perfect. No deadline to finish. Just one quiet, consistent space that helps you show up differently—for yourself and for the kind of love you actually want.
This isn’t about games. It’s about truth. The kind that makes you magnetic. The kind that makes you safe in your own skin. The kind that lets you stop auditioning, and start choosing.
You don’t need to change yourself to be chosen. But you might need to change the way you’ve been showing up for you. You ready?
It’s $29.
30 days.
We Start June 1.
Much love and gratitude,
Iryna